Have you ever been on a blind date? If we
enter the university, we will get a lot of opportunity to have a blind date in Korea. Actually,
I have had a blind date 5 times. A blind date is a date between two people who
have not previously met. You will look forward to meet a perfect match for you
so you get dress up and go to the appointed place. But after meeting,
presumably you are disappointed by your partner's character or personality
because you didn't know well about her or him. If you get tired of this
traditional blind date, I will tell you new way to meet your mate.
A new way of finding romantic matches using
tablet PCs installed at a bar in Seoul in Korea is
catching on as young people find that technology enables them to overcome their
reluctance to approach strangers.
The bar lends the digital hardware to each
party of customers, who can communicate with people they take a shine to at
other tables because of a
special program that intra-links the tabs. They first talk on an instant
messaging service, then move on to video chatting. Furthermore eventually,
if all goes well, elect to share a table.
Some customers have positive feedback. This
is because at ordinary bars, people are reluctant to meet someone, because they
can only judge them based on their looks, but this bar is great because we can
talk online before they meet.
However
not all of the customers leave satisfied, and fewer find their knight in
shining armor or dream girl.
Others feel very uncomfortable. Many people
often cut off their interlocutor mid-stream because the Internet allows them to
short-circuit entrenched rules of social etiquette.
Not only tab pc users but also smart phone
users can meet strangers by using applications like "Hi there" and
"who's here". As mentioned above, even if some people like to meet
person with this way, other people are worried about negative effect such as
sexual innuendo and meeting for enjoy. Therefore, we should carry out real-name
system to overcome this problem. In addition, it will allow adults to use this
way and be limited to minors by making adult certification. And then, this new
dating way is used in accordance with the original purpose which is to find
person who is good for me.
Written by: Minjy Han
WSU International Student
South Korea